Psychology-basedfor partners, family, friends and work

Still running it over in your head? Get answers.

Describe what happened - understand what's going on and what to say. In two minutes.

See how it works
1

Describe the situation

In your own words, what happened

2

AI analysis grounded in psychology

Read through relationship psychology

3

Get your breakdown

What is really going on, and what to do

How it works

Clarity in three steps

No endless chat. A guided process that gets to the point.

1

Describe the situation

Tell us in your own words what happened. No essays required.

2

AI analysis grounded in psychology

We read the dynamic using established relationship psychology, not generic internet advice.

3

Get your breakdown

See what is really going on, and what to do next.

Privacy

Private by design

  • Use it anonymously - no account needed to start
  • We never ask you to import or upload your chats
  • No identifying details about the other person

You describe the situation in your own words. That's it.

Any relationship

Not just dating. Any situation with another person.

The same clarity, whoever it is about.

Partners

Mixed signals, recurring arguments, going quiet, "are we okay?"

Family

Tension with a parent, in-laws or siblings, and where your boundaries should be.

Friends

A friend pulling away, an unresolved fall-out, a one-sided friendship.

Work

A difficult boss or coworker, an awkward exchange, the talk you are dreading.

Why Out of Games

Not a generic chatbot. Not a lecture.

Out of Games

  • Guides you with the right questions, so nothing important is missed
  • Grounded in relationship psychology, not vibes
  • Gives one clear next step, not ten vague options
  • Stays neutral, no taking sides, no labels like "narcissist"
  • Works for partners, family, friends and work
  • Private - nothing to import, used anonymously

A blank chatbot or a forum thread

  • Only as good as how well you happen to ask
  • Generic advice that does not know your situation
  • Strangers' opinions, often pushing you to extremes
  • Quick to diagnose and assign blame
  • Mostly built for dating, nothing else
A real breakdown

What an Out of Games breakdown looks like

The same depth, whoever it is about. Browse a few examples.

Illustrative examples of common situations.

Good to know

Questions, answered

Is this therapy?+
No. Out of Games offers guidance and reflection to help you think a situation through. It is not therapy or medical advice and does not replace a qualified professional. If you are in distress, please reach out to a professional or a support line.
How is it different from just asking ChatGPT?+
A blank chatbot only helps as much as you know how to ask. Out of Games guides you through the right questions, applies established relationship psychology, stays neutral, and gives you one clear next step instead of a wall of generic advice.
Is it private?+
Yes. You can use it anonymously. We do not ask for identifying details about the other person, and your situation stays private.
Does it work for non-romantic relationships?+
Yes. Partners, family, friends, and work situations like a difficult boss or coworker. The approach adapts to the type of relationship.
Will it just take my side?+
No. It stays neutral, considers both perspectives from what you tell it, and avoids labels and blame. The goal is clarity, not validation.

Get clarity on your situation

Stop running it over in your head. Describe what happened and get a clear breakdown, plus your next step.

A few quick questions. Private. 18+